At times I felt dumbfounded when some people when would look at me with such disbelief that I have remained single at age of 33. Some say it's a choice, some say i just have to wait for the right time while i say, i chose to search but nothing prospered until i get tired...i stopped searching. in my mind, "i've done my part..now i guess it's time to just let things happen if i am really meant to marry".at once i thought i wasn't just lucky in love...i guess there are just people like me who aren't just lucky to have found the one. but then on the later part i came to realize that having a partner is not really the 'be- all or the end-all " of this thing called life.
i now find the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, gather my courage to change just the things that i can as human and continue to pray for God's wisdom so I can see the difference..as what a famous prayer goes.
i am now happy as i trudge onward to the road less traveled. and whether i'll find the one in the near future or not at all- - the good thing about it is knowing i always have God with me to guide me to a life that is temporal and to a life that is everlasting.
happy valentine's day!:)
4 comments:
i think we're on the same boat. I'm at your side. I agree with you that it's not the be-all and end-all in a woman's life. I think I'd also be saying these things when I reach your age.
ate? kamusta?
I totally agree with you, I am also single at 33. learnt to live life to its fullest everytime.. live on top of the world no matter what..
I too am single at 33, I sometimes cry myself to sleep on date night. I refuse to settle and I will not compromise my morales for a guy who is not going to be a permanent fixture in life. I guess you can call me a hopeless romantic, I call myself fearless.
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