Monday, March 9, 2009

asking the difference..

"Te, unsay kalainan sa true love ug commitment?"
(What is the difference bet. true love and commitment?".

This is the question that my cousin already in his teenage years asked straight on me. At ako po'y napanganga ng sandali. Somehow I was glad he asked my opinion but then how i wished I have answered his curiosity. In the back of my mind, that question is actually not really hard to fathom but then I wished I had given him the right explanation.

Eh, bobo po kasi ako sa mga relationships. So, naisip ko, how can i give something i don't actually have. I mean, the ideas..the right opinion. I was not able to deal at least quite perfectly my past relationships. Napaisip tuloy ako kung may relevance ba ang tanong ni pinsan sa aking buhay.

I wonder if those past relationships were only true love but we refused to commit or just a commitment however still we cannot consider as true love.

Hayyysss buhayyss!haha!:D

8 comments:

p0kw4ng said...

naman pinag isip mo pa ako,hihihi

ano nga ba ang pinagkaiba non??

ang pagkakaalam ko kasi magkakambal lagi yan eh..pag mahal mo willing kang mag commit...pag nakipag commit ka eh mahal mo!

es said...

pokw4ng,sa puntong 'yan tama ka naman sa opinyon mo..pero mukhang di yata 'yan ang naisagot ko sa tanong na 'yon. talagang napaisip din kasi ako. pero diba may mga relasyon na kailangan lang nilang maging committed sa isa't isa dahil yun ang tama, ngunit pwede rin namang di true love nung isa yung partner nya. parang ganun? yun ang gusto ko sanang maintindihan pa.

nakuhh!parang ginawa kong kumplekado ang buhay ano?hehe!

Anonymous said...

True love is synonymous to a commitment in a relationship. So be it.

Anonymous said...

relationships are for people waiting for someone better to come along

true love what is that ? lol

false love ?

wiLfRed said...

yoko magcomment, drop by lang.. never been to any of the above.. wahehehe.. so, so, so afraid of committing i guess.. nag-aantay parin akong ligawan ng sinumang maganda, matalino, at masipag na babae.. bwahehehehe...

P.S. bisaya diay mo? ahehehe.. apir! good luck kay insan.. whoa! he's coming of age na.. congrats,

best regards!

Anonymous said...

hahaha!natawa ako sa sa comment mo wilfred.LOL!

good luck din sa'yo.:)

wiLfRed said...

wahehehe.. kasi nakakatawa talaga ako pag buhay pag-ibig ang topic.. la akong ma-comment.. kasi dama ko ang bata-bata ko pa't di pa pwedeng/kayang manligaw or makipagdate.. magagalit sina mama at papa.. lols! wahehehe.. loko lang..

nwei, thanks. best of luck to all of us.. :D

Shawie said...

ah, the topic is so complicated that nobody is proved to be an expert of it... you should have shared your experience to him, doesn't matter- he'll understand, hehehe...

"Just when you think things are not on your side, conquer them all with LOVE. Only in an open heart and mind where you may remain stand still as a UNIQUE individual."